As a 19 year old girl, have I done enough ual stuff with guys to not be considered a loser.. am I normal?

not to be a prude, but if you have a hard time saying no to guys then you rly shouldnt be goin out bc u could get d. like an old sayings says "why buy milk when you can have the cow for free". dnt just give it all away to guys, leave something to the imagination. they need to work for it.