I dont know what to do. Help?

It would appear that you don't want to develop anything with your "fem" friend, so it would be best not to go there, just remain good friends. Then ironically, it's the other way about with the guy you do like, he only wants to be friends with you? Life's a beeatch! It's all probably just as well though, because if you're going away to college in the fall, you are going to be confronted with wall-to-wall guys and that's where your problems will really start!